On the contrary, Upaniṣad-s say that everything is Brahman. When we go with purāṇa-s, karmic theory becomes questionable. Vedas stop with some verses that worship preta, or the dead body. threshold of his house. Here again he has done the rituals for my mother.As per the shastras, the eldest son is not supposed to conduct any rituals for any one, while the parents are alive. At the end of the day, it is our satisfaction that alone counts. Prabhakar Mahalakshmi and Kamala Mantras, Stotrams (28), Durga Saptashati and Durga Devi Mantras (15). By satisfying the above referred non-human characters, preta attains purity to offer it to the fire. Gods and goddesses that we speak of are energy levels created by Brahman to sustain the universe. But this procedure is not followed. It is in the form of a ghost during these ten days. If yes, no one will come to know about do and don't in real life. Anonymous Venkatesh Ramaswamy sasanka kashyap Anonymous Both of them died instantaneously, in my presence. Even in this case the same rule apply? The soul is reborn in a different form after death. That is why, I differentiated between gods and realized souls like Sages and Saints. January 27, 2014 04:53 PM. Mar 17, 2019 #1 My mother passed away on 12-3-2019. In the morning at 5 am i had a call from home stating he passed away . MANBLUNDER October 31, 2013 10:15 AM. At the same time, She does not absolves us from our karmic imprints, which have to be experienced. But birth and death depends upon karmic account. December 08, 2013 02:13 PM. Brahman is Supreme and from Him alone everything originate. How is that possible? April 06, 2020 10:16 PM. detailed learnmeaning. Please write to me directly at ravi@manblunder.com. It is enough if we keep God in our mind, as He is omnipresent. Vedas worship Agni (fire) more than any other gods. all i could do was pray to God and i was next to him reading thiruvasakam and mahamrityunjaya sloka minutes before his death. Anonymous My father expired on 9th June 2010. we have completed our rituals as per Assamese norms. Where as in case of pithru devatas, say Vasu Rudra and Adithya - do they have a form or they are formless? The funeral pyre should be lit from the eastern side. It is like undermining God Himself. Your words are too strong and I don't I am worthy of it. Once I get this, I will publish this here. When a soul is liberated, it is not reborn and this is what Kṛṣṇa meant Bhagavad Gītā VIII. Let us understand like this. there is also one more reason for doing the sapindikarana on 12th day itself, if the kartha of the rituals also die before performing the sapindikarana ritual, the departed soul cannot join the pithrus of the family. As you said there are different versions. Prabhakar Trika philosophy says that when Divine Grace descends, all the karmic imprints are annihilated. But you, Hi sir, please consider this as a special request. November 25, 2013 07:52 PM. January 19, 2014 09:26 AM. February 02, 2014 10:37 PM. Is it on the 11th day or 16th day? Vedas too never ask anyone to perform ceremonies either at the time of death or later. Krishna says that one should die by fixing his consciousness between his eyebrows and thinking about Him. The soul which passes out of the body after death is termed ‘Preta’, one that is bound on its onward march to the Beyond. MANBLUNDER October 13, 2013 09:15 AM. There is no need for me to perform any rituals to them. What I have said here is related to normal human beings. Per rishi manthanga words sabari got moksha by reciting only rama nama which took her directly to bramha loka. Śālagrāma (sacred stone) should be placed near the body. May 11, 2013 11:29 PM. When there is no left over karma, his soul is liberated and merges with Brahman. only with the divine grace one can get rid of it. They also know that no power in the universe can do away their accrued karmas; their karmas are to be experienced only by them. This is what I feel. Ravi Sir, While doing Amavasya tharpanam, should we give the tharpanam to the departed Father and Mother or can we give tharpanam to our other kith and kin like uncle aunt cousin or any other close relative who has left this world. Prabhakar Sum total of all our karmas is the store house of all our karmas, accrued over several births. December 22, 2013 12:51 PM, Dear SirThanks for the quick response. I have one more questsion. the offering of flesh. One can definitely read this at home and there are no restrictions on this. October 31, 2013 10:04 AM. Looking for title/author of fantasy book where the Sun is hidden by pollution and it is always winter. Third piṇḍa should be offered to Bhūta at the resting place. Thread starter KR SUBRAHMANYAM; Start date Mar 17, 2019; K. KR SUBRAHMANYAM Active member. The path is beset with obstacles, distress and difficulties. sir i got dream that i am giving tharpanam to some one. The subtle body gets a proper shape in three days and three nights and on the tenth day, the subtle body develops hunger. After the death of a person,a ritual/ceremony will be held on the 11th day. Ravi Sir, To whom should we give this roasted sesame seed balls mixed with jaggery.One more question sir, If start doing pithru tharpanam on Amavasya days, we should continue to them on all amavasyas. Post Mourning Rituals. When we accept karmic theory, this tarpana, yearly rituals, etc cannot be accepted. it prescribes many alternatives if the kartha is not capable of running a bull, it asks to roll a coconut, if kartha not capable of giving Bhoodhaana, it prescribe to give the fibre of coconut, if not capable of giving Gold, prescribes to give seeds like wise it gives lot of alternatives but the palan is same. As you know, mind is very powerful than our actions. Normal human beings surely cannot decide their death, whereas great sages and saints can decide their death. Having heard from few that Garuda Puranam should read only in the untoward home within ten days, I was so upset, Your reply brings peace...... Prabhakar April 24, 2013 10:46 PM. After the cremation, the ashes are thrown into a river, ideally the Ganges river, and the mourners walk away without looking back. Afterwards cremation at night is not permitted. A soul is nothing but Brahman. The relationship of husband and wife is only for one janma or I can expect to fulfill her wishes in the next janma as husband and wife again ? I don't have anyone to do all the rituals. The first few days after the bereavement of a dear one is the most difficult, during that time, if our mind is engaged in organisng for the last rites and various rituals, our mind does not get choked with grief. It is said that entire Mahābhārata should be recited (preferable) or heard in seven days and there are certain procedures for doing this. Subtle body undergoes pains or pleasures in the hell or heaven as the case may be and the gross body undergoes pains or pleasures in the earth. June 19, 2013 10:34 PM. I have to inform my relatives and friends about performing 10th day rituals and also Subham on 13th day . Some one said it should be exactly 365th day and some said it can be in 11 and half month. May 20, 2013 08:30 PM, Raviji Thank you for your wounderful comments, per my understanding ultimate surrender means that giving up everthing to thy lotus feet and thereafter witnessing the happenings, in such a case i do not exist there and that i had been merged with the brahman and are only witness the happenning. Why after the death of a family member or a close relatives they won't pray till the 11th day ceremony? MANBLUNDER During it journey, the soul regrets for every evil action it had done during the past birth. It is a sort of prasāda for us. It is difficult to say whether we have exhausted all our karmas. This is really pity. Based on these factors, we say that soul merely remains as a witness. At this point of time, it would be better not to disturb the peace prevailing in the family, which is a hard commodity to get today. We don't complain similarly with hospitals. Sriramrl When we read the Garuda Purana, only at the year end they will be reaching the yamaloka and later on the judgement etc., takes place then the decision is made whether to move the soul to Pithru loka or any other place or once again back to earth for further janma. When the karma is ripe enough, the subconscious mind enters into another body. I am extremely thankful for your good words. The last day of Pitru Paksha is known as Sarvapitri Amavasya or Mahalaya Amavasya. There is no issue at all. The above mentioned lady had been initiated into panchadasi also by one of her relatives and she had done lots of Pujas and Havans relating to Devi in her house. April 17, 2013 02:49 PM. It is always ideal to offer incense sticks at the entrance door. April 26, 2013 07:06 PM. Download Preview. There is no 'this' or 'I am'. Srinivas What is the purpose of these two and what is to be performed during these two rituals? We are in no way going to satisfy Him, by resorting to unwanted rituals. This means that the soul can  see both good and bad and the departed soul begins its journey according to its karma. I know very well, they will bless me. The third part goes to Yama’s servants and the fourth is consumed by the preta. Prabhakar But I fully agree with you when you people spend of too much of money, many times beyond their capacities to get mantras initiated. Sri krishna also adds "Mathbhakthobhi na vaishnava:". Getting a male or female child are explained in some other ancient texts. How does the soul returns in the dead body when a dead person is revived using Amrita? It is enough if we think good for others. Any god is formless. While initiating there are lot of mental procedures are involved. The whole Garuda Purana is based on Garuda's questions. Cremation Ceremony: Rituals after death: Several rituals are to be performed for the peaceful and satisfactory send-off of the inner soul (Aatmaavu) of the person who dies and to integrate the inner soul with Lord Vishnu. According to this Upaniṣad those who perform Vedic rites and rituals with some desire in their minds (material desires) go to the ancestors (the moon) only to reborn again. On the contrary, if anyone spends money by performing homa and other rituals for personal gains, such actions cause huge amount of bad karmas. If you need any further assistance please email me at ravi@manblunder.com. Did Proto-Indo-European put the adjective before or behind the noun? Thus, I feel the last rites, first year and yearly rituals for our ancestors/others are for the benefit of'oneself/person performing the karma', as it gives them a formal structure to confront grief and accept it, so that life can go on. May 11, 2013 10:50 PM. Swami Sivananda says:. It depends on the merit of the deeds one has performed during life. Yes, they can be performed after performing 13th day function comprising of udakaśānti and navagraha-homa. Sriramrl What sort of karmas a person should do if he wants to get a peaceful death and a safe journey to the other world. Your thinking and logic on this count is absolutely correct. He is now freed from the pains of transmigration. Further reading: Soul is nothing but the Brahman Himself. By giving money to someone who is worthless, the giver also accrues bad karmas. For the rest, I do not want to give my opinion. Thanks for understanding. I am his only son and performed his last rites. Once the body is completely burnt, the remains of the bones are collected and during this time the sixth piṇḍa is offered. The next part needs further explanation. River Ganges and any sea. Quickly Customize. April 17, 2013 07:43 AM. Dear Sir, As you know that my father/mother died last year (date) and it will be his first death anniversary (Anniversary number) on the coming (date: dd/mm/yy). In these conditions what will be the condition of the departed soul do you think it has to suffer? Where is the question of doing any rituals, when his soul has already merged with Shiva? Funeral Invitation Wording 11th Day Ceremony After Death Invitation In Telugu 39 Best Funeral Reception Invitations Love Lives On. December 08, 2013 02:10 PM. is this correct? Can you please guide me if an total surrender to the lotus feet of the divine will remove us from all karma whether good and bad and end this indefinte ocean of birth and rebirth cycle? But for a realized person, I am also Brahman, as he sees beyond three types of bodies, gross, subtle and causal. The soul in its disembodied form hovers about its original and familiar places for ten days. Some sources are, You may refer to Tantrarāja tantraṃ for more information on the Nitya. June 18, 2013 05:50 PM. Lunar days to be avoided are full moon day, new moon day and 8th lunar day. The astral body takes shape from day to day with the formation of the head, eyes, and other limbs of the Linga Sarira, fed and nourished by the sesamum and water poured out in libation over the stones which represent the ancestors. The will of the divine shall move us forward ?one day i happened to hear the kathakalashepham of Sabri Moksham and rama namam this was a turning point in self.Thanks a lot raviji for this woderful explanation.pranams to thy lotus feet RavijiRajaram, MANBLUNDER MANBLUNDER Ravi, nowadays in the western world, lets be realistic - what if you have no-one to do any prayers. Former believe God is within and the later has not matured enough to look for the God within. January 27, 2014 05:06 PM. Use your brains sir. 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